Cultivating The Masculine Warrior -Part 4

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Anyone who has been on our courses will recognise this story below.

The light and dark energies that must be cultivated within a man are the key to a fulfilling, meaningful and peaceful life. 

I will go as far to say all of the problems I see in men are a misunderstanding of the their light and dark forces. 

The imbalance or denial of these are the root of people pleasing, violence, cruelty, depression, sadness and lack of meaning in life. 

We spend a great deal of time on this subject because of it's importance. 

This wonderful story speaks for itself, so here it is below. 

I hope you enjoy it. 

Cherokee Story.

An old Cherokee is teaching his grandson about life:

“A fight is going on inside me,” he said to the boy. ”It is a terrible fight and it is between two wolves. One is evil – he is anger, envy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.”

He continued,

“The other is good – he is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion, and faith. The same fight is going on inside you – and inside every other person, too.”

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather: “Which wolf will win?”

The old Cherokee simply replied, 

“If you feed them right, they both win. You see, if I only choose to feed the white wolf, the black one will be hiding around every corner waiting for me to become distracted or weak and jump to get the attention he craves."

"He will always be angry and always fighting the white wolf. But if I acknowledge him, he is happy and the white wolf is happy and we all win"

"For the black wolf has many qualities – tenacity, courage, fearlessness, strong-willed and great strategic thinking – that I have need of at times and that the white wolf lacks."

"But the white wolf has compassion, caring, strength and the ability to recognize what is in the best interest of all."

“You see, son, the white wolf needs the black wolf at his side. To feed only one would starve the other and they will become uncontrollable."

"To feed and care for both means they will serve you well and do nothing that is not a part of something greater, something good, something of life."

"Feed them both and there will be no more internal struggle for your attention. And when there is no battle inside, you can listen to the voices of deeper knowing that will guide you in choosing what is right in every circumstance."

"Peace, my son, is the Cherokee mission in life. A man or a woman who has peace inside has everything. A man or a woman who is pulled apart by the war inside him or her has nothing."

“How you choose to interact with the opposing forces within you will determine your life. Starve one or the other or guide them both.”